1) Encourage new connections
Research shows that students who feel a strong sense of connection within their university are more likely to complete their degree. University is a great opportunity to meet friends with similar interests, both academic and extracurricular, to help form the connections that will help them succeed.
2) Suggest participation in a faculty course union or a student club
Clubs and course unions are a great place to make social connections and have fun outside of class.
3) Encourage early conversations with academic and career advisors
These conversations will help your student ensure the right fit with their academic program, and can guide them toward establishing clear career goals and their personal plan for success.
4) Promote active time on task
Time management is one of the most important skills to learn when starting out at university. Motivate your student to use a time management tool to track their tasks – for example, a desk calendar, smartphone app, or wipe-and-erase whiteboard – so that they can plan for what’s ahead and what’s important. They’ll want to include time for study, sleep, healthy eating, a modest amount of employment, and (just as importantly), remember to include some time for fun as well.
5) Support exploration
Be supportive of your student exploring new and different interests, activities, and events. This is a great time for students to get out of their comfort zone and find opportunities to try something new.
6) Provide space to learn from challenges
Part of the university experience is learning how to be independent and self-advocate when needed, so don’t step in and fix your student’s problems too quickly.
7) Encourage them to seek help if they need to
UBCO has a number of helpful on-campus and community resources to support your student with anything from math tutoring to financial support to relationship counselling.
8) Promote class attendance and participation
It may seem obvious, but remind your student of the importance of their own effort in learning. Like a health club, ‘membership’ alone doesn’t make someone healthier – it takes effort. Here at UBC, that includes preparing for and participation in classes, tutorials and labs; seeking help during instructors’ office hours; and attending academic skills workshops.
9) Encourage exploring opportunities beyond their first year
There are several high impact practices (HIPs) that have been shown to impact student success: service-learning, learning communities, research with faculty, internships/field experiences, study abroad, culminating senior experience, leading a club/group, etc. Help your student plan early to participate in two or more HIPs, even if they may not be eligible until a future year.
10) Support your student to enjoy the experience
This experience is certain to be one of the most memorable of your student’s life. There will be times when your student feels stressed, disappointed, or homesick – and there will also be times of joy, discovery, and achievement. You can help your student weather the hard times and celebrate their wins.
I would also encourage you to download our Monthly Tips for Parents (PDF).
We are excited to welcome your student and support them as they learn new skills, discover new strengths, and build friendships that will last a lifetime.
